Latin men don't go to the doctor because they don't want to know,” says George Lopez, echoing a line from one of his signature stand-up routines. Onstage, he elaborates. “Don't go,” he jokes. “Because doctors are only going to find something wrong with you.”
Offstage, the actor-comedian is adamant: Regular visits to the doctor are essential. That's a message he's spreading among fans and at-risk communities after his own experience with kidney disease and the debilitating nerve pain it can cause.
Lopez's journey from “not wanting to know” to wellness and advocacy began at age 43 with a diagnosis of chronic kidney disease. While the news was a surprise, it explained years of discomfort and fatigue and eventually pain from uremic neuropathy that he could no longer ignore. (“The nerve damage caused by uremic neuropathy is thought to be related to toxins that build up because the kidneys can no longer eliminate them,” says A. Gordon Smith, MD, FAAN, chair of neurology at Virginia Commonwealth University in Richmond.)
“Culturally, where I grew up, health was not a priority,” says Lopez, 60. “I had to learn to advocate for myself.” Lopez, who is of Mexican American descent, was raised by his grandmother in Southern California's San Fernando Valley. In his 2005 autobiography, Why You Crying? Lopez recalls growing up angry and ashamed. He never knew his father and felt emotionally neglected. As a boy, he often wet his bed, which he would later learn is a potential symptom of early-stage kidney disease. “When I was 18, I had to get a physical for baseball, and the doctor noticed that my blood pressure was high,” Lopez says. “But he passed me and never even mentioned that high blood pressure can be a sign of kidney disease.”
Chronic kidney disease is often misdiagnosed, says LaTonya Hickson, MD, associate professor of medicine at the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL. “Many patients have no outward symptoms at first. We diagnose via blood or urine tests, looking for chemical indicators or structural issues. But if an individual looks healthy on the outside, some doctors may not prescribe those tests.”